Kindness is joy for others. It is selfless. - sincere and compassionate - genuine concern. Nice is more selfish. - social expectations including manners, politeness - outward appearances. >[!REFLECTION]+ >If [[Ed Moloney Strategic Plan#Values|my values]] are to be kind and not always nice then I need to pay more attention to what is going on in others' lives, and less attention to what society expects from me or the social impact of doing something (whether positive or negative). But I also need to consider [[Self-compassion]].